The Gift of my Unfinished Business

Recently, a friend of my mother’s passed away. Surprisingly, instead of sadness, I felt anger towards this woman. Somehow, I had forgotten about the animosity I held towards her. It had been nine years since I had thought about this woman. Somewhere deep within, I had stored those old feelings away. Gratefully, I have once again, discovered the gift of bumping into my unfinished business.

I believe it is an opportunity, when an old issue is woken up. Especially, if we had forgotten about it. Initially, I will wallow in all the uncomfortable feelings. Eventually, this motivates me to get to the other side of the issue. Ideally, I will create some quiet time and ask for guidance from my higher self. This time, I asked for Divine insight into my resentment towards this person.

Shortly thereafter, a one-word answer dropped into my awareness. My intuition had given me the word narcissist. Immediately after this, I had the gut feeling that I needed to forgive her. Apparently or obviously, this person was the way she was, because of her own issues. By acknowledging that she had her own issues, my entire perspective changed. As a result, my understanding broadened and my compassion returned. With that one word dropping into my inner awareness, everything shifted.

The gift of bumping into my unfinished business is that I am now free of this piece. The good news is, I am free of some stuck energy that I had forgotten about. The bad news is, there is always more. The good news is, I have time to keep chipping away at the pile of stuff that is still stuck inside me.

By paying attention to what I’m feeling, asking what this is about, and trusting any answers that float in, I will continue to process what is ready.

Calling in the Light, the angels, and the Reiki healing energy will also speed up this process. Breathing in Light and breathing out what you are feeling also helps to lighten your load.

Have you taken the opportunity to ponder your unfinished business lately?